Proud Mama

Posted on August 11, 2009 by FoBaM-Jamie

mom1Some of the most heart-burstingly poignant motherhood moments are borne out of the immense pride our children can inspire. Whether it’s a matter of first steps, good grades, sports acumen, or a particularly sweet expression of affection or empathy; when our kids do something to make us proud, we can’t help but share how we feel about it.

It has always amazed me how hours (even days) of conflict and strife can suddenly dissolve in a wave of warm and fuzzy feelings when my daughter does something to make me proud. Although I glow with admiration when she accomplishes some physical feat (she’s particularly into cart wheels at the moment), it’s her occasional tenderness that gets me the most choked up.

My daughter is typically what you might call … um … a “diva.” She’s 5 ½ years-old going on 15, full of attitude and chutzpah, and as likely to give you an eye roll as a smile. It’s partly because of this bravado-laden veneer that her expressions of caring are so touching.

We recently traveled north to New Hampshire where, among other adventures, we explored Lost River. The self-guided tour consisted of a leisurely boardwalk stroll punctuated by a series of natural, glacial caves. Successful passage through the dauntingly tight cave quarters requires feats of near contortionism. This is all well and good for a small child, but not so easy for a full-sized and claustrophobic mother.

Three-quarters of the way through the ordeal, my daughter’s tenderness nearly brought me to tears. All along the way, I’d been offering her words of support and encouragement (she was a little unsure of the dark, damp spaces). When we reached the aptly named “Lemon Squeezer,” however, it was she who suddenly came to my aid – calling over her shoulder, “Come on mom, you can do it. It’s ok. Don’t be scared.” Did I mention what a great kid I have? Wow.
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What moments of pride have your kid(s) given you? Don’t hold back – we know there’s a lot to brag about.